If you want to know if a woman likes you, most people will tell you to look for signs or hints that she likes you, such as her playing with her hair, laughing at all of your jokes, or her making frequent eye contact with you, but looking for signs that a woman likes you isn’t the best way to know if a woman likes you.
The Presence Of Hints Doesn’t Mean A Woman Likes You
You see, plenty of women play with their hair out of habit, women might laugh at your jokes because you’re genuinely funny, and women might look at you, not because they like you, but because they think you’re weird…
For each hint that people tell you to look for, there are a million reasons why a woman would give that “hint” that have nothing to do with being interested in you.
There’s also the fact that a lot of women will flirt with you and give you hints that they like you simply because they want attention.
Then there’s the fact that many women will laugh at your jokes, be nice to you, and make frequent eye contact simply because they’re being nice and want you to feel appreciated.
And to put all of this succinctly, looking for hints that a woman likes you isn’t the best way to know if a woman likes you because the presence of hints doesn’t mean a woman likes you.
But not only does the presence of hints not mean a woman likes you, the absence of hints doesn’t mean that a woman doesn’t like you.
The Absence Of Hints Doesn’t Mean That A Woman Doesn’t Like You
You see, many women will hide the fact that they like you, and some will even go so far as to do everything they can to make it look like they don’t like you because they’re afraid that if you know that they like you, you’ll reject them or make fun of them.
Also, many women are afraid of being made fun of for liking someone and so they hide their hints.
And if you’re anything like me, this should sound familiar, because I know when I was young, I refused to do anything that might hint at the fact I liked a girl, because if people found out, they would make fun of me…and a lot of adult women haven’t grown out of this.
Ultimately, the absence of hints doesn’t mean that a woman doesn’t like you, and the presence of hints doesn’t mean that a woman likes you.
So, if hints aren’t the best way to know if a woman is interested, what is the best way?
Well, it’s actually pretty simple…but you’re not gonna like it.
How To Know If A Woman Likes You
The best way to know if a woman likes you…is to ask her out!
Now I know damn well that wasn’t the answer you were hoping for…you were hoping for some secret technique that would let you know if a woman likes you…that wouldn’t risk rejection.
…but there is no such method, stop trying to find it…it doesn’t exist.
If you like a woman…
ASK.
HER.
OUT!
But, I get it, asking women out can be absolutely fucking terrifying, especially if you’re young, but looking for hints is not the way to go.
Stop Looking For Hints
Please, stop looking for hints that a woman is interested in you, I’m begging you, because there have been so many times where women constantly looked at me, laughed at all my jokes, played with their hair, and even fucking flirted with me, but yet…they had absolutely zero interest in me.
And then there were many times, MANY TIMES, when women gave me absolutely zero fucking hints that they liked me, but yet…they liked me!
But because they didn’t give me any hints that they liked me, I never asked them out…
Please, don’t make the same mistake I made, don’t look for hints that a woman likes you, instead, if you like a woman…
ASK.
HER.
OUT!
Now let’s go over a few important nuances and common counter-arguments.
Asking A Woman On A Date Won’t Always Work
First, some people will say that even if you ask a woman out and she says yes, that doesn’t mean she likes you…and that’s true.
Women say yes to dates all the time, not because they like you, but simply because they’re bored and want something to do, or because they want a free meal, or because they want attention…BUT, unless you’re picking up women from clubs or bars, or surround yourself with low-quality women, the chances of a woman going on a date with you simply because they’re bored, or because they want free food or attention, is near-zero.
And in the opposite direction, a woman might say no to a date even if she does like you.
You see, even if you ask a woman out, she may say no, even if she likes you because she’s nervous, or because she doesn’t think she’s ready for a relationship, or because she doesn’t think she’s good enough for…the list is endless.
Now, there’s one exception where you definitely should look for hints before asking a woman out.
When You Should Look For Hints
If you’re in a situation where asking a woman out would be dangerous or inappropriate, such as the workplace or the gym, then yes, look for hints.
If you’re going to put your job at risk and ask a woman out, don’t go in blind, look for hints.
If you’re going to risk being banned from the gym, don’t go in blind, look for hints.
If you’re in a situation where asking a woman out would be dangerous or inappropriate, look for hints.
Now it’s time to talk man to man.
Be A MAN!
Stop looking for hints that a woman likes you, because let’s be honest, the main reason you’re looking for hints is because you’re afraid of rejection, but it is time to stop being afraid and to be a fucking man.
And a real man doesn’t look for hints, a real man doesn’t wait around for signs that a woman likes him, a real man goes after what he wants.
So the next time you see the woman you like, go talk to her.
And if she shows you hints that she likes you…ask her out.
And if she doesn’t show you hints that she likes you…ask her out.
Either she says no and life continues, or she says yes, and you potentially spend the rest of your life with her.
The next time you see the woman you like, ask her out.