What To Do When The Woman You Like Doesn’t Like You Back

We all know the pain of liking a woman, but not having her like us back, and we’ve all thought to ourselves, “how can I get her to like me?”

Well, the answer is actually pretty simple, but before you can solve a problem, you first must know what is causing the problem, so before we go over what to do when the woman you like doesn’t like you back, we must first go over why exactly she doesn’t like you.

Why She Isn’t Interested

If the woman you want isn’t interested in you, there are only two possible reasons why:

1. You’re physical value isn’t high enough.

2. You’re non-physical value isn’t high enough.

Or put simply, you’re either not physically attractive enough, or you as a man aren’t good enough.

Now with that being the case, there’s naturally only two things you can do:

1. Increase your physical value.

2. Increase your non-physical value.

Or put simply, you can either become more physically attractive, or become a better man.

Let’s now explore the first option.

Increase Your Physical Value

To begin, if the woman you like doesn’t like you back, it’s almost always because you’re simply not physically attractive enough, in which if you want her to like you…you simply need to become more attractive!

And I know, it sounds like I’m saying, “if you’re short, just grow taller!”…but unlike your height, your physical attractiveness can actually be increased.

How To Become More Attractive

And you can increase it by doing the following:

1. Style yourself better.

Wear clothing that fits your body type, get a haircut that complements your facial structure, have your clothes tailored, wear shoes that add an inch or two to your height, grow a beard if you have a weak jawline, and so on.

2. Exercise.

Go to the gym, go rock climbing, do gymnastics, do something that will build up the musculature, competence, and strength of your body.

3. Improve your posture.

Learn to stand up straight with your shoulders back, and work on having more masculine mannerisms.

…that’s it, if you do just those three things, you are guaranteed to become a much more attractive man.

And of course, those three things won’t be done overnight, but becoming more attractive is often truly as simple as styling yourself better, exercising, and improving your posture.

Now, what if you follow the advice I have just given you and become more physically attractive, but the girl you like still doesn’t like you?

What If She Still Doesn’t Like You?

If you have increased your physical value, or how physically attractive you are, but the girl you like still doesn’t like you, there are two possible scenarios, just as before:

1. Your physical value isn’t high enough.

2. Your non-physical value isn’t high enough.

Or put simply, you’re either still not physically attractive enough, or you as a man aren’t good enough.

Now, luckily, the solution to both of these is the exact same:

Increase your non-physical value, or, become a better man.

Now, in regards to the first problem, of not being physically attractive enough, you may be thinking, “how the fuck would becoming a better man make the woman I like, like me…if I’m not physically attractive…”

What If You’re Just Not Attractive Enough?

This is how:

A man’s attractiveness is based on more than just his looks, in which you can still be attractive, even if you’re not physically attractive.

You see, a man’s attractiveness is based on both his physical and non-physical value, in which even if you aren’t physically attractive, you can still be attractive if your non-physical value is high enough.

Or put simply, a man can be attractive, even if he isn’t physically attractive, if he is an extraordinary man.

And I know this might sound like complete bullshit, but there are so many men who look below average, but who are brilliant, or extraordinarily funny, or profoundly educated, and attractive women date them because although they aren’t physically attractive, they’re non-physically attractive.

A man’s attractiveness is determined not only by his physical value, but his non-physical value.

With that in mind, whether the woman you like doesn’t like you back because you’re not physically attractive enough, or because you as a man aren’t good enough, the solution is to become a better man.

Now the question is, how exactly do you become a better man?

How To Become A Better Man

Simple.

1. Increase your level of education.

Read as many worthwhile books as you can, and read across a wide array of topics, such as philosophy, politics, economics, history, finances…everything.

The more you know, the more attractive you will be.

2. Increase your income.

Work hard to get promotions and raises, and gradually increase your income.

The more you earn, the more attractive you will be.

3. Improve your social skills.

Go out often and meet new people, start conversations with strangers, make new friends, and become more socially skilled.

The more socially skilled you are, the more attractive you will be.

4. Become funnier.

Take improv classes and study the science of comedy and humor.

The funnier you are, the more attractive you will be.

5. Build your confidence.

As you increase your value, consciously recognize that your value is increasing, and both internalize and externalize that.

The more confident you are, the more attractive you will be.

There are of course more ways to increase your value, but those five things are often all you’ll need.

Now, what if you become a better man, but the woman you like still doesn’t like you?

What If She Still Doesn’t Like You?

Well, if you have become a better man, but the woman you like still doesn’t like you…you’re gonna have to cut your dick off and become a monk.

I’m kidding, please don’t do that.

If you have become a better man, but the woman you like still doesn’t like you, there is only one thing you can do, and that is to become even more physically attractive and to become an even better man…that’s it.

Push your mind to its limits and educate yourself to the point where everyone around you becomes an uneducated monkey by comparison.

Work hard to progress in your career and build power, prestige, status, and wealth.

Go to the gym until you have a body that looks like it was sculpted by the Greek gods.

Improve your style until random people on the street tell you that you belong in a fashion magazine.

If the woman you like doesn’t like you, become truly extraordinary.

But, what if you have become truly extraordinary…and she still doesn’t like you?

What If You Have Become Extraordinary, But She Still Doesn’t Like You?

Well, if you have become a truly extraordinary man, but the woman you like still doesn’t like you…you clearly have no choice but to kill her.

If you can’t have her, no one can.

Again, I’m kidding, please don’t do that.

The brutal truth is…there is nothing you can do.

If you have become a truly extraordinary man, but the woman you want still doesn’t like you…there’s nothing you can do.

And that might not be easy to accept, because everyone wants to believe that there is some secret technique or some magical combination of words that will make the woman you like fall in love with you, but sadly, there is no such thing.

The only thing you can do is become the most extraordinary man you can be, and hope that the man you become, is the type of man that she finds attractive.

Why She Doesn’t Like You

Now, if you have worked hard to become the most extraordinary man you can be, but yet, the woman you like still doesn’t like you, don’t let that make you depressed or cause you to start thinking that you’re not good enough, because if you have become truly extraordinary, then her not wanting you is often not because you’re not the right quality of man, but because you’re not the right type of man.

It’s often not that you’re not funny enough, but that you simply don’t have the right type of humor.

It’s often not that you’re not muscular enough, but that she simply prefers a different body type.

It’s often not that you’re not educated enough, but that she simply prefers talking about subjects different than the ones you’re interested in.

It’s often not that you’re not physically attractive enough, but that she simply prefers a different type of look.

The problem is often not that you are not the right quality of man, but that you’re not the right type of man.

And to fully understand this, think about this:

If a woman likes you, and she’s a great woman, but she is adventurous, loud, and full of energy, but you want a woman who is quiet, calm, and who likes to stay at home and read books all day, then no matter how much the adventurous woman betters herself, you will never want her, because who she fundamentally is, is not the type of person you want, in which you rejecting her, has nothing to do with what quality of woman she is, but what type of woman she is.

So if you have become the most extraordinary man you can be, and the woman that you want still doesn’t want you, don’t become depressed, angry, or think that you’re not good enough, because the problem will almost never be that you’re not the right quality of man, but that you’re simply not the right type of man.

…but don’t worry, because whether or not she likes you back wouldn’t really matter at that point.

The Woman You Like Not Liking You Back Doesn’t Matter

You see, if you become a truly extraordinary man in order to get the girl you like to like you back, then even if she doesn’t ultimately like you back, it doesn’t really matter…because you will have become an extraordinary man, in which you’d then have so many options, that you wouldn’t even care about the original woman anymore.

If you become an extraordinary man and have great style, good posture, a muscular body, a good career, good money, and an extremely high level of education, there would be so many women who now find you attractive, that you would most likely no longer even care about the original woman who’s attraction you sought.

And this is how it was with me, I used to obsess over individual women and think, “how can I get her to like me,” and I thought, “if I become even more muscular, educate myself more, and become funnier, she’ll like me for sure,” except she didn’t, but at that point, I didn’t care, because after becoming more muscular, educated, and funnier, I became attractive to so many women that I no longer obsessed over any individual woman anymore.

I no longer cared about whether or not the girl I liked, liked me back, and simply moved on to pursue the next woman.

Once you become attractive enough to attract the woman you like, you will be attractive enough to attract thousands of other women, in which that one girl will no longer be special.

You will have become attractive to hundreds of women just like her, and plenty who are even better than her, so don’t worry if you become an extraordinary man, but the woman you like still doesn’t like you, because at that point, it won’t really matter.

So don’t worry about working hard to become extraordinary, and not having the woman you like, like you back, because by the time you become extraordinary, she won’t even matter, because there will be so many other women who now find you attractive, that she will be nothing more than an unrecognizable face in the crowd.

Conclusion

Ultimately, if the woman you like doesn’t like you back, become the most extraordinary man you can be, and if she doesn’t like you back, you will have become extraordinary, in which it wouldn’t matter if she likes you back or not, because there would be thousands of women who now find you attractive.

Now go out there and become the most extraordinary man you can be.