A lot of men default to blaming their looks when they’re rejected and think, “if only I was handsome, if only I was tall, if only I had a 12-inch magnum cock”…if only you realized that women may not be rejecting you because of how you look, but because of who you are.
You see, the problem may not be that you’re not good-looking enough, but that who you are as a person isn’t good enough.
Perhaps you are not intelligent enough, or funny enough, or masculine enough.
And it is important to recognize this possibility, because the first step to solving any problem, is recognizing that there is a problem, but if you always default to blaming your looks, then you may never recognize that the problem might not be how you look, but who you are.
If you always assume that your looks are the problem, then you may never put effort into improving who you are as a person.
You may think, “what’s the point of working on myself if women don’t like the way I look?”
But if the problem is in fact who you are rather than how you look, then you will never change who you are and become attractive to women.
So…what’s the solution?
Look inward.
Look Inward
Look inward and take a good look at who you are.
Are you funny, are you intelligent, are you educated, are you ambitious?
Take a good look at who you are and truly question what you have to offer, and when you find out where you’re lacking, improve in that area.
If you believe that you aren’t as educated as you should be, read more.
If you aren’t as muscular as you should be, exercise more.
If you aren’t as funny as you should be, take improv classes.
Look inward and take a good look at who you are, and whether or not you as a person are good enough, because the problem may not be how you look, but who you are.
This Fucking Happened To Me!
And I say all this because this happened to me.
When I was young, women would constantly reject me, and I used to think, well clearly it’s because I’m not tall enough and I’m ugly…but in reality, I just wasn’t masculine enough.
But now that I’m masculine, women now want me and go on and on about how attractive I am…the problem wasn’t how I looked, but who I was.
Conclusion
Even though women will of course sometimes reject you because of how you look, you must not default to blaming your looks.
Do not be so obsessed with your looks that you forget to look inward.
The problem may not be how you look, but who you are.